As of now, I am not sure exactly where I
stand in favor of open adoptions or closed adoptions. Both sides have very good
argument to why someone would consider open or closed adoptions. Open adoption
is good for staying in contact with the adoptive parents and the child. This
includes phone calls, face to face visits, and sending letters or pictures to
the biological parents. A closed adoption is good for privacy purpose so there
would be no contact prior or after the placement of the child. There is many
more reason but this is just a few.
I suppose it all depends on the situation
that I am countering if I want to settle for open or closed adoptions. There
are many variables that can affect in the decision of open or closed adoption; an
ethical concern with open adoption is “Ethical concerns include the limits of
birth parents’ responsibilities to provide information about their health,
genes, and families to adoptive families” (Allen, pg. 49). What if the
biological parent does not feel comfortable telling that information to the
adoptive family, are they obligated to do so? Overall, it should in the best
interest of the child. It is all about the child, and not the biological or
adoptive parents, such as filling emotional needs. A good example of this would
be the guest speaker, Mary, said that after being contacted by her birthmother
she was so needy and emotional (not using the direct wording from speaker). In that
case, it should be a closed adoption because that can interfere with an
individual how he or she live there life. Furthermore, I think open or close
adoption need some improvement in both areas because neither is concrete in the
position they stand at the moment but setting guidelines and keeping them is
probably the best way to go.
Chia C.