Friday, May 3, 2013

Blog Post #12 Option #1


The student presentations this week were great learning experiences. I believe students drew a lot on previous readings and discussions, yet expanded their topics to include debates we did not have time to have in class. I particularly found JB and IP’s presentations to be interesting.
I really enjoyed listening to JB because she expanded on something that was almost completely skipped in class. We discussed briefly gay and lesbian adoption but our discussion was focused more on the psychological arguments for gay and lesbian adoption, such as in “How Does the Sexual Orientation of Parents Matter?” This chapter states “this body of research-mostly done by psychologists-almost uniformly reports findings of no notable differences between children reared by heterosexual parents and those reared by lesbian and gay parents” (Stacey & Biblarz,p.248).  As important as this conversation was, it left out lesbian adoption, which was very disappointing. Luckily JB stepped in and did some of the research for us. She stated she also found the research to be sparse when it came to lesbian adoption and was hoping to find out why that is as she continues to research. I would be very interested in hearing about what she finds.

I also found IP’s research topic to be particularly interesting. Her discussion of transnational adoption, and how this adoption can affect identity, was very similar to what we discussed in class. IP found that she agreed with Keller in the reading “Goals of Maternal Practice,” in that helping a transnational adoptee develop their racial identity is crucial to the child’s wellbeing. IP did however differ with Keller when it came to the parent’s role in supporting this racial identity. Keller stated that when adoptive parents send their children to camps such as Kamp Kimchee in Minnesota, it will “help their children develop a sense of racial-ethnic literacy, pride, and identity” (Keller, p.27).  IP found the opposite to be true, especially in her own experiences. From what I understood from the presentation, IP believes that there needs to be better programs in place to prepare adoptive parents for helping their adoptive children develop racial identity and that a simple one week camp is not cutting it.

I believe my walk away from these presentations and this semester as a whole is that no matter what you hear in class, it is always just a small glimpse of the whole issue. It is important to do further research to really find out where you stand on an issue. Do not follow blindly, but rather discover things for yourself by pursuing as much information on the issue as possible.

Julie Thurmes

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Blog Post #12


While I have been listening to everyone’s student presentations this week, I have had a chance to reflect on how complicated adoption really is.  Though I have realized this earlier this semester, the presentations have made me realize that if adoption would to ever be an option for expanding my family, I would have to think long and hard about doing it.  There are so many different dimensions of what could go wrong.   Before this class, I never thought of adoption as something that could challenge a person’s soul or identity, but clearly by listening to all the different ethical dilemmas this week, adoption is something that does.  But overall, I think as a class we have clearly learned a lot about adoption and ethics and can truly think about both subjects on a more complex and intellectual level.    

I think the biggest thing that I am going to walk away with from this class is that adoption isn’t as principled and uplifting as the general population may think.  It is a long process that takes a lot of time, energy, money, and can test a person’s morals and values.  Throughout the semester we have listened to and read a lot of stories about adoption and in every story there was an element of moral and/or ethical compromise.  As a whole, this class has help me realize that even though there is a good outcome in whatever you are doing, you are going to have to analysis yourself as a person and decide what you think is good or bad.  It is you and only you that have to live up to the decisions you make and it is you and only you that makes those choices.  I truly admire the people that decide to adopt because they take on so many unknowns when they commit to the process and embark on a journey that test their moral compass, coming out of it a different person with a better realization of who they are.           
Lisa R.